I’ll be the first to admit I am not always the most compassionate person, it’s just how I was raised. Well I have been sort of dating a guy for the last 4 months and it is going no where. I thought I would have more feelings for him the more time we spent together since we really only see each other on weekends but none have really bloomed. There is no good reason why I don’t like like him but I just don’t. I have fun with him but it is a friends fun not a dating fun. We’ve never even french kissed since I tried once and he didn’t react, I have never tried again. He likes me way more then I like him so I was surprised this week that I haven’t heard from him at all.
The last time we texted I wished him a good trip when he went out of town for business at the beginning of last week. He usually texts when he gets back and wants to hang out but I was in San Fran and I never got a text so I didn’t think much of it. The last time we were together though it didn’t go well, I took him to a co-workers party and he got too high to function and kind of embarrassed me. I told him it was fine but I don’t think he believed me, that was before Thanksgiving.
Anyway my point is, Do I just forget about him & not worry about it or should I contact him to meet up and officially break it off? I am really content never talking to him again but we are friends on FB now so he can see my every move. I haven’t broke up with someone in a long long time and I don’t really do that sort of thing very well but it wasn’t even like we were officially a couple. Is it just super bitchy of me never to contact him again if he never contacts me? hmmm…..